Does your dad or mum have to have everything kept in one place, sounds daft but he has to have things kept in the same cupboards, clothes on the same shelves and totally flips if someone uses something of his and doesnt return it straight away. I know that I have OCD but heck he is ten times worse than me. He will shout then go silent then panic. Honestly, he panics, shakes sweats and stuff.
I really hate seeing him like this, just for one day it would be great to see the man that is buried somewhere inside my Daddy. The happy man who lived for the Army, enjoyed life to the full, climbed mountains, swam, ran, and of course played rugby. Even seeing him smile from inside would be really nice.
But Hey, that isnt going to happen so guess we should make the most of what we have, good or bad